Your help could include:
- Shopping
- Personal care
- Cooking
- Cleaning
- Assisting with transport
Whatever it is, it will help our team and the person’s recovery.
If your friend or relative is happy for you to be involved, you should be included in discussions about what they will need after they leave hospital.
Hospital staff should involve you and listen to you. You should feel comfortable asking our team questions.
Important questions to ask about the person you’re caring for:
- When will they leave hospital?
- What support will they require once they get home?
- What support is available and when?
- How long will they need support?
- Will they need special equipment at home?
Discharge
Once our health and social care team agree it is safe, your friend or relative will be discharged.
When they are well and it is safe for them to be discharged, they cannot remain in hospital if they do not wish to accept the support package which is offered.
The hospital discharge team will help to identify the options available at this point if ongoing care is needed.
To help make discharge easier, you can do the following:
- Be available at the person’s home to allow for visits from an occupational therapist or to allow equipment to be delivered.
- Get some shopping in.
- Help tidy up or move furniture to fit new equipment.
- Be there when they return home.
Your needs matter too, so don’t overcommit yourself and think about how things will be in the longer-term.
When deciding what you can offer, consider the following:
- Realistically, can you provide the care that is needed?
- Do you have any commitments, like looking after grandchildren, or going to school, university or work?
- How will you fit that in with your caring role?
- Do you have the time to look after yourself as well as someone else?
Remember: support is always available.
- Ask for extra help.
- Ask for an assessment of your relative or friend’s needs.
- Ask for a young carer or adult carer assessment.
Your needs are important too, don’t take more than you are able to.
Useful support and information
- Carers UK
- Newcastle City Council
- Community reablement service
- Newcastle support directory
- Newcastle welfare rights
- City library Newcastle
- Newcastle continence support and district nursing
- Patient advice and liaison service
- Independent Age
- Age UK
- Citizens Advice
- Disability north
- Elders council
- Deaf link
- Becoming visible
- Newcastle vision support
- North East autism society
- Macmillan cancer support
- Marie curie
- Silverline memories
- Lewy body society
- Mind
- Rethink mental illness
- Oxfam
- The Armed Forces Charity SSAFA
